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Opening Remarks |
| MINISTER
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"Dearly Beloved: We are gathered here, in the
presence of God and of this company, that ______ and ______ may be
united in holy matrimony. We are here to celebrate and share in the
glorious act that God is about to perform - the act by which He converts
their love for one another into the holy and sacred estate of marriage.
This relationship is an honorable and sacred one,
established by our Creator for the welfare and happiness of mankind, and
approved by the Apostle Paul as honorable among all men. It is designed
to unite two sympathies and hopes into one; and it rests upon the mutual
confidence and devotion of husband and wife.
May it be in extreme thoughtfulness and reverence,
and in dependence upon divine guidance, that you enter now into this
holy relationship." |
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GIVING OF THE BRIDE
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| MINISTER
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"Being assured that your love and
your choice of each other as lifelong companions are in God's will and
that you have your families' blessings. I now ask. Who gives this woman
to be married to this man?" |
| BRIDE'S FATHER |
"Her mother and I do."
(Bride's father places her hand in
Groom's hand and is seated) |
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DECLARATION OF INTENTION
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| MINISTER |
"The apostle Paul compared the
relationship between husband and wife to that between Christ and the
church. Marriage is a decision of two individuals to share the same type
of pure, Christian love described by Paul."
1 Cor 13:4-8, Love is patient, love is
kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not
rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no
record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the
truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always
perseveres. Love never fails....
"This kind of love enriches each part of life and
marriage enriches love. Two lives, shared with this kind of love, can
hold more fulfillment and happiness than either life alone."
"_____ (GROOM). are you ready to enter into this
marriage with _____ (BRIDE), believing the love you share and your faith
in each other will endure all things?" |
| GROOM |
"I am." |
| MINISTER |
"_____ (BRIDE), are you ready to
enter into this marriage with _____ (GROOM), believing the love you
share and your faith in each other will endure all things?" |
| BRIDE |
"I am." |
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MARRIAGE VOWS
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| MINISTER |
"_____ do you take _____ to be your wedded wife,
to live together after God's ordinance in holy matrimony? Do you promise
to love her, to honor and cherish her, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness
and in health, and to be to her in all things a good and faithful
husband as long as you both shall live?" |
| GROOM |
"I do." |
| MINISTER |
"_____, do you take _____ to be your wedded
husband, to live together after God's ordinance in holy matrimony? Do
you promise to love him, to honor and cherish him, in joy and in sorrow,
in sickness and in health, and to be to him in all things a good and
faithful wife as long as you both shall live?" |
| BRIDE |
"I do." |
| MINISTER WITH
GROOM REPEATING |
"I, _____,
take thee, _____, to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold, from this
day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer in sickness
and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part. According
to God's holy ordinance, and thereto I pledge thee my faith." |
| MINISTER WITH BRIDE
REPEATING |
"I, _____, take thee, _____, to be
my wedded husband. to have and to hold, from this day forward, for
better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to
love and to cherish, till death do us part. According to God's holy
ordinance, and thereto I pledge thee my faith." |
PRAYER |
| MINISTER |
"Father in heaven, You ordained
marriage for your children, and You gave us love. We present to You
_____ and _____, who come this day to be married. May the covenant of
love they make be blessed with true devotion and spiritual commitment.
We ask that You, God, will give them the ability to keep the covenant
they have made. When selfishness shows itself, grant generosity; when
mistrust is a temptation, give moral strength; when there is
misunderstanding, give patience and gentleness; if suffering becomes a
part of their lives, give them a strong faith and an abiding love.
Amen." |
EXCHANGE OF RINGS |
| MINISTER |
"It is a Christian custom to
exchange rings as a symbol of love. As the rings have no end so your
love should have no end. As the rings are made of gold symbolizing
purity, so should your marriage have purity. As often as either of you
see them, you will be reminded of this moment and the endless love you
promised."
"____, what token to you give that you will
perform your vows?" (Minister receives ring and says to bride.)
"_____, do you receive this ring in token of the
same?" |
| BRIDE |
"I do." (Groom places ring on
Bride's finger.) |
| MINISTER WITH GROOM
REPEATING |
"_____, this ring I give to you in
token and pledge of my constant faith and abiding love." |
| MINISTER |
"_____, what token to you give that
you will perform your vows?" (Minister receives ring and says to groom.)
"_____, do you receive this ring in token of the
same?" |
| GROOM |
"I do." (Bride places ring on
Groom's finger.) |
| MINISTER WITH BRIDE
REPEATING |
"_____, this ring I give to you in
token and pledge of my constant faith and abiding love." |
Light Unity Candle & Sign License |
| MINISTER |
"The candle represents the joining
together of two individuals to live together as one in spirit. Anthony
and Amanda, the candle yet to be lit, represents the new family which is
being created today. Anthony and Amanda are leaving their families to
make a new life together."
(Bride & Groom light candle)
(Bride, Groom, & Witnesses sign
license) |
PRAYER |
| MINISTER |
"Let us pray: O thou eternal God, who art our
Father and our Friend, as you have heard these words of promise just
spoken, may the Holy Spirit deepen in the mind of this man and this
woman the sense of the sacred and binding power of their vows. And as in
Thy Name these words were spoken to make these lives one, may your rich
blessing be added. Give them Your grace and guidance that they may
loyally fulfill the vows they have taken. May Your joy abide with them
always, that thus they may be a blessing to each other, and to those
about them, finding in the blessedness of the home life on earth a
sample of the happiness of Thine eternal home. Through Jesus Christ our
Lord. Amen."
(Bride and Groom join right hands.) |
DECLARATION OF THE MARRIAGE |
| MINISTER |
"What therefore God hath joined together, let no
man put asunder. Forasmuch as Anthony and Amanda have consented together
in holy matrimony, and have witnessed the same before God and this
company and have pledged their love and loyalty to each other, and have
declared the same by the joining and the giving of rings, I, therefore,
by the authority of the state, pronounce that they are husband and wife,
in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ."
"The Groom may now kiss the Bride." |
PRESENTATION |
| MINISTER |
"I now present to you Mr and Mrs
_____ _____ |
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